Childhood Experiences to Release

4 Childhood Experiences To Release So You Can Move Forward

Studies on the human mind have proven that as a child, your mind is a lot like a sponge. Everything you see, hear, encounter and experience gets absorbed deep into your subconscious mind and continues to influence you from behind the scenes for much of your life. This is how we end up with childhood experiences to release later in life if we want to manifest and create an amazing life.

This subconscious influence can be either a blessing or a burden, depending on how it drives your thoughts, emotions and beliefs.

The ones that cause unwanted emotions like fear, self-doubt and negativity should be scrubbed from your subconscious – and the first step to achieving that is knowing exactly what childhood experiences are adversely affecting you and why.

Here are four of the most common types of childhood experiences to release to move forward with your life:

1. Moments of uncontrollable, paralyzing fear

Fear is a natural part of growing up. As children, we fear speaking on stage. We fear failing school exams. We fear asking out a potential prom date. We fear standing up to the school bully.

For most of us, that fear was validated when we failed at certain tasks or challenges – and the consequences left us embarrassed, unworthy and doubtful of our own abilities.

For some of us, that fear has solidified into a suit of armor we've carried into adulthood; an excuse to avoid taking risks or exploring beyond our comfort zones.

Be mindful that our purpose in life is to grow, and fear is a necessary ingredient towards that growth. Even award-winning performers like Adele still get fearfully nervous on stage, but that doesn't stop them from stepping up time and time again.

As George R.R. Martin says, “The only time a person can be truly brave is by first facing a fearful situation – and tackling it head-on anyway.”

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2. Situations where procrastination paid off (in the short term)

Our brains are hardwired to shield us from harm – which is good when you're stepping aside to avoid a falling tree; but not so good when your brain convinces you to stay put, sit still and not do today what you can do tomorrow.

As children, we quickly begin to encounter situations where procrastination pumps us up with a short-term high.

Do you remember doing any of the following:

  • Skipping your homework to talk on the phone with your friend.
  • Staying up a few extra hours past bedtime.
  • And mowing the lawn tomorrow so you can play with kids in your neighborhood today.

Just like eating unhealthy food and not exercising in our adult lives, there are consequences to your temporary high – but once you're addicted to procrastination, pushing them to the back of your mind becomes second nature.

What makes procrastination even more damaging is that as you get older, the stakes get higher. Your career, finances and health all require your immediate attention and sometimes holding off on an important task for even just a few days is enough for everything to come crashing down.

So don't procrastinate on kicking your procrastination habit: respect and love yourself, your time and your life by treating it with the urgency it deserves.

3. Inability to find a pursuit, skill or purpose we feel passion for

You probably remember at least a few people from your childhood who pursued a hobby or skill, like dancing, playing a musical instrument or a sport who went on to turn that pursuit into a successful lifelong career.

Most of us, however, tend to drift away from the paths we explored as children if we had the opportunity to explore any in the first place.

Instead, we follow what's available and convenient, sacrificing the discovery or pursuit of what truly fulfills us on a deeper level.

Then, as the bills, responsibilities and deadlines of adulthood stack up, we completely sideline any notion of honoring our passions; instead, we settle for admiring other people's passion-driven achievements.

But, as the German philosopher Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel said, “Nothing great in the world has been accomplished without passion.”

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4. Moments of self-doubt caused by judgmental parents and role models

From our grades to our fashion sense, it's normal for our parents, mentors, teachers and role models to act judgmentally towards us as we're growing up.

This behavior often boils down to a well-meaning protective streak that manifests as excessive scrutiny on our actions, decisions and academic performance.

Unfortunately, being constantly put under a microscope can create a sense of unease and nervousness each time you're faced with a decision that should be yours and yours alone to make.

“What will they think?” and, “Will I let them down?” are common questions you'll ask yourself when you're plagued by the self-doubt of excessive judgment.

To overcome this block, it's crucial that you reinforce the understanding that you are the captain of your own ship and that nobody but you has the right to be your own harshest critic.

While it is, of course, admirable to make your parents and mentors happy, your own happiness should come before anything else – and those who truly love you should remember this fact.

Now that you're familiar with the 4 most common damaging childhood experiences to release… 

It's crucial to know which one is affecting you most.

The tricky thing is because these experiences exist in your subconscious mind, it's hard to figure this out by yourself – in fact, the truth may be the complete opposite of what you think.

So there you have it, that's my take on the damaging effects of the 4 childhood experiences to release to move forward. What did you think? Do you think you're affected by your childhood experiences? Let me know in the comments below.

P.S. If you'd like to learn more about what's holding YOU back, specifically, when it comes to manifesting and success, take this FREE 30-second quiz designed to expose the No.1 ‘Success Blocker’ wedged deep in your subconscious mind. It's fun, quick and pretty darn accurate! 😉

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